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Social Risk Taker
25 pointssocializing & friendship
Ask a potentially 'out of your league' person for their contact information or a hangout.
How to complete Social Risk Taker
This is deliberately approaching someone who feels above your social or romantic 'level' and making a direct ask, accepting that they might say no. The value isn't the outcome; it's proving to yourself that the imagined penalty for rejection is far smaller than it feels.
- Pick someone you'd normally talk yourself out of approaching and decide to act within the next minute, before doubt builds
- Open with something specific to the moment or place rather than a rehearsed line
- Make one concrete ask: their number, their handle, or a specific plan like grabbing coffee
- State it plainly and let the pause sit; don't backpedal or pre-apologize
- Thank them and move on gracefully whatever the answer is
Tips
- A clear ask ('want to get a drink sometime?') lands better than a vague 'we should hang out'
- Treat a no as the whole achievement completing; you took the risk, which was the point
- Lowering your voice and slowing down reads as confidence even when your pulse is racing
What counts as done
You made a direct contact-or-hangout request to someone you considered out of your league and got a real yes or no.
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