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Exclusivity Negotiated
40 pointsdating & relationships
Have an explicit conversation about the status and boundaries of your relationship.
How to complete Exclusivity Negotiated
This is the talk that turns assumptions into an agreement: are you exclusive, what counts as crossing a line, and where is this headed. Having it explicitly prevents the slow-motion hurt of two people quietly running on different terms.
- Decide what you actually want before raising it so you negotiate from clarity, not panic
- Open directly, for example 'I want to talk about where we stand,' rather than hinting
- Cover the concrete points: dating others, deleting apps, and what exclusivity means to each of you
- Name your dealbreakers and listen for theirs without rushing to a verdict
Tips
- Ask in person; this conversation reads badly over text
- Their hesitation is information, not necessarily rejection
- Revisit it later if circumstances change rather than treating it as one-and-done
What counts as done
Both of you have stated out loud and agreed on the relationship's exclusivity status and boundaries.
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